When a child’s parents are unable to provide a safe or stable home, grandparents and other relatives often step in to help. In South Carolina, courts recognize that relatives can play a crucial role in supporting children through difficult situations. But many families are unsure whether grandparents or extended family members can actually obtain custody when a child’s well-being is at risk.
Custody cases involving relatives can be emotional and complex. Parents may be struggling with addiction, incarceration, neglect, abuse, or financial instability, and relatives may feel torn between supporting the parents and protecting the child. Understanding how South Carolina courts handle these situations can help grandparents and family members make informed decisions about their next steps.
South Carolina courts generally prefer children to remain with their parents whenever possible, but the child’s safety and stability always come first. If the court believes the parents cannot care for the child properly, it may consider awarding custody to a grandparent or other relative.
To determine whether a relative should receive custody, the court examines the child’s needs, the parents’ circumstances, and the relative’s ability to provide a stable environment. The court’s focus is always on the child’s best interests, not on who “deserves” custody the most.
Relatives do not automatically receive custody simply because they are family. They must show that placement with them is necessary and beneficial for the child. The stronger the evidence of the existing relationship and the child’s reliance on that relative, the more likely the court is to consider custody.
Depending on the situation, grandparents and relatives may pursue several forms of custody or legal rights. Not every case requires full legal custody. In some situations, relatives simply need the ability to make medical decisions, enroll a child in school, or provide temporary care. Understanding your options helps you choose the level of involvement that best fits your family’s needs.
Below are common legal pathways for relatives who want to care for a child:
Each option has specific requirements, deadlines, and procedures. An experienced attorney can help determine which path best protects the child and preserves important family relationships.

Courts in South Carolina do not take custody changes lightly. To obtain custody, a grandparent or other family member must show that the parents are unable or unwilling to care for the child and that placing the child with them is in the child’s best interest.
Judges review all available evidence to understand the child’s needs and the family’s dynamics. Relatives who are seeking custody should be prepared to show consistent involvement in the child’s life and their ability to provide a safe home.
Courts often consider the child’s emotional well-being, school stability, and long-term development when making decisions. Relatives who can provide continuity and a loving, structured home environment have a strong chance of being granted custody when parents are not able to fulfill their responsibilities.
Custody cases involving grandparents or extended family require careful planning, clear evidence, and a deep understanding of South Carolina family law. At Sarji Law Firm, we help relatives present strong, organized cases showing why custody is appropriate and how the child will benefit from their care. We understand the emotional weight that comes with stepping in to protect a child while still respecting family relationships.
Whether you are seeking temporary custody, emergency custody, or long-term placement, our child custody attorneys guide you through every step of the process. We help you gather evidence, prepare for hearings, and demonstrate to the court that you can provide the stability the child needs.
If you are a grandparent or relative concerned about a child’s safety or well-being, we are here to help you understand your legal options. Custody cases involving relatives can be emotional and complex, but you do not have to face them alone. With the right support, you can take meaningful action to protect the child you love.
To speak with us about your situation and learn how to move forward, please contact us today. We are ready to help you take the next steps in safeguarding your family’s future.


